Wednesday 19 January 2011 by Helen

Talk about early development...


A recent news study, in last week’s New Scientist, claims that a foetus might learn to see before it has even been born.  I’ve heard of unborn babies being able to hear music from inside the womb, but I was quite surprised to discover that foetuses can potentially see? I suppose it could be quite amusing to imagine what your unborn baby's first sight would be? Something original to write inside the Birth Announcement when baby does eventually emerge from their 'womb with a view.' (I just about managed to resist the urge to make this the title of the post!)


When I say see, I think it’s more a case of them being sensitive to light, not necessarily recognising shapes and colours!  I doubt very much that a foetus can make out objects or signs. It's thought vision might develop 7 months into pregnancy. It was Marco Del Giudice at the University of Turin in Italy who made this discovery. He measured the amount of light that could penetrate through to a women’s uterus and discovered around 1 per cent of ambient light would get in. This essentially means that if a pregnant lady was to walk out into bright sunlight, for the foetus, it’s like being in a room with the lights on.

 

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Wednesday 22 September 2010 by Helen

After tackling some of the issues involved in Introducing Solids To Babies, I've looked ahead to when baby becomes toddler and to what food-related obstacles might come next...

When it comes to toddlers, many food battles may have been won, but, there is a war on the horizon. By this I mean, the main food groups are likely to have been introduced, the appetite has probably increased (along with the energy levels) and independence is fast being gained. The flipside of this independence is defiance, and an increasing sense of what they do and do not want to eat. Their little minds get stronger and their little heels dig in deeper. As toddlers they are more conscious of the eating process, and more likely to play up when it comes to mealtimes. I seem to have provided a very negative summary, and I’m sure the majority of meal times are not a duel, but let’s just say I’m looking at the worst case scenario, and providing a handful of suggestions that will make any not so good food days a little bit easier...

colour photo of toddler turning his nose up at food

Mealtimes in general


Choices

Offering your little one choice will appeal to their newfound sense of freedom. Make sure you’re offering say three healthy choices, and then it’s a win-win situation, as they are likely to choose one. The downside of choice is that it does give your baby quite a lot of control. You don’t want to reach the stage where your child is expecting a choice all the time or feeling like they can dictate what they are going to have at meal times.

Bartering

Bartering follows on quite well from choices, in that it comes with a similar warning. There is a danger that your baby can gain too much control, and the whole thing will backfire. I would say definitely offer an incentive, such as ‘eat the rest of your broccoli and you can have some pudding’, however, make sure both ends of the agreement are fulfilled, be consistent. It’s no good toddler not having to eat their broccoli and still getting pudding, otherwise you have defeated the object and little one has learnt to get their own way.

Relax

Ultimately, if your toddler is being picky, they are probably just trying to exert some power in the household and over their own eating choices. If you relax and don’t make a big deal out of it then the power struggle is gone and the mealtime problems go away a lot more quickly.

Timing

Monitor your childs mood, and observe when they are most irritable, when they seem most hungry etc, and, where possible, tailor your meal times around this.

And when it comes to vegetables... 

Even if your toddler loves vegetables, there's bound to be some no go's that they turn their nose up at. Here's a few ways you could disguise vegetables or jazz them up a bit...

  • Make vegetable cakes. They have some vegetables and generally speaking, less sugar. Your toddler will get used to whatever level of sugar you put in things such as cakes and custard, so decrease the amount and thier taste buds will adjust. You could try making Carrot Cakes, Courgette Cakes or Apple Cakes.
  • Baking fruits makes them less like fruit and more like pudding! You could bake apples with raisins and honey. Or, try making a slit in a banana, filling it with raisins and honey or with Nutella, wrapping it in foil and then baking. Most fruits will take about 20-25 minutes in a 200 degree oven.
  • Get arty with veg. You could make a face, or some other sort of arrangement. It doesn't have to be a masterpiece. I think the key is to include as much colour and variation on the plate as possible, so it's not just a plate of carrots for example. If you do attempt a face, sliced courgettes could make good eyes, runner or french beans could be the hair. Peas and sweetcorn are good for filling in gaps (larger areas), as are mashed sweet potato, squash or carrot.
  • Feed raw vegetables as snacks. Chopped up carrots work well, as do cucumber and celery. You could make a healthy dip out of some low fat cheese or yoghurt and chives to go with the veg.
  • Make fruit lollies. Although it seems the wrong time of year for anything cold, it's quite quick and easy to blitz up fresh or frozen fruits, add some juice and pour the mixture into lolly-moulds, or even ice cube trays.

It may sound like common sense, but, if you feel like you're failing on all accounts, then just try a little of something, don't necessarily fill the plate. It's better that your toddler tries a little than none at all. Everyones tastebuds continue to evolve and change, so if your little one doesn't like a certain vegetable now, it doesn't mean that they will dislike it forever. I was quite a fussy child and I am definitely not a fussy adult! As toddlers get older, you can also start to involve them in the process of food gathering and food preparation, they will love the hands on, fun element, so it's a good way to have a positive effect on their attitude towards food and nutrition.

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Tuesday 21 September 2010 by Helen

Babies will generally start eating solid foods at 4 to 6 months of age . Cue - some food-related neuroticism, a whole new set of things to worry about. You might find yourself measuring your baby up against others, comparing and questioning is my baby too fussy? Is he eating enough? Is he eating too much? What foods should I feed my baby and when? And the list goes on...A lot to consider, so I've made a start. To begin, here are some  indications that your baby might be ready to start on real food.

  •  If your baby’s birth weight has doubled
  •  If your baby has good control of his neck and head, and can sit up (with some support)
  •  If your baby can indicate he’s full by clamping his mouth shut, or pulling away when you offer food.

color photo of baby covered in raspberry jam

How much should babies eat?

The majority of paediatricians will say - feed your baby as much as your baby wants to eat. This is bound to vary from time to time, and much like with sleeping patterns, babies do go through phases.  As a little human being, your baby will have his or her own appetite. In terms of eating '3 meals a day' for example, some babies aren't ready until they are 9-10 months, on the other hand some are ready at 7 months. The following general information may or may not apply, and again reinforces the fact that all babies and parenting methods are different...

  • When a baby is eating soft diced fruit or vegetables, they may seem to be eating less than a baby who is being spoon-fed purees.
  • When a baby is teething, they may eat less for a day or two, but this should only be temporary, and before you know it the appetite will be back. Often bigger and better!
  • When a child is preoccupied or distracted in any way, say for example you have just prized away a favourite toy, chances are she’s not going to be enthusiastic about being plonked in a high chair. So, pick your moments!
  • When you want a child to get used to eating at the same time as you, establish this as a routine early on. It might not be an instant success for all families, especially if baby particularly likes to be the centre of attention, or if their feeding requires a lot more of your attention. But if this is the case you may just need to ease them into a family mealtime routine more gradually.

Within a few months of baby eating solid foods, you can start incorporating some of the following; meats, vegetables, fruits and cereal. Cereal being a good one to start with. It's a simple, staple food, and you know what you are getting in terms of ingredients and specific nutrients. Brands that create cereals for babies are Heinz, Bebivita and Cow and Gate. You can get cereal dry or pre-mixed and it doesn’t make any difference nutrition-wise, so whether you are at home or on the go, just choose the most convenient.

Types of cereal for babies

  • Rice cereal is a popular choice. The grains have been cooked and pulverized and they contain a good source of thiamine, an important B vitamin. It also adds fibre to baby's diet.
  • Oatmeal is another ingredient for baby cereal. Like the rice, it is finely ground and is a great source of fibre.
  • When baby has got used to cereal, pureed fruit is always something you can add, or small pieces of banana.  A good way of kick starting the 5 a day!

Watch the salt intake

It is worth keeping an eye on salt levels in all your baby's food. Family cereals have a lot of hidden salts and sugars. Not all of them do though, Cow and Gate for example, doesn't have any added sugar or salt. Babies under a year old should have a salt intake of no more than 1g. Babies up to 3 years should have a salt intake of no more than 2g.

photo of three stars on a plate, one orange, one green, one yellow - all made out of pureed vegetables

When to introduce fruit and vegetables

Fruit and vegetables are introduced at about 6 months. Many paediatricians will recommend introducing fruit before vegetables, but this is simply because babies are born with a preference for sweets.  But there is no evidence that your baby will take a dislike to vegetables if fruit is given first.
I've compiled a handful of tips for getting baby eating vegetables,

  • Puree all the vegetables to begin with. Start with green and then progress to yellow, orange and other brightly coloured varieties. So peas and french beans, followed by carrots, sweet potatoes and squashes.
  • A typical serving would be 3 tablespoons twice a day, but again this depends on rate of growth and size of appetite.
  • Introduce a vegetable at a time, and allow a few days for baby to adapt to each new flavour before trying another.
  • As with cereal, you can by a more convenient pre-made version, or you can strain and puree yourself.
  • It’s advised that you don’t serve beetroots and turnips to babies less than a year of age. They contain large amounts of nitrates, and these can cause a low blood count in young babies.

Think vitamins and nutrients

Follow the same principles as you would with your own nutrition, although, your baby’s taste buds are not going to be as developed, so don't be disheartened if there are tastes baby just doesn't seem to acquire, there's plenty of time! Persist, but don't get too hung up on any one particular food, move on and try another, and come back to the stubborn food. There's such an array of vitamin-packed foods to choose from, it’s worth testing out as many as possible and encouraging baby in the right direction. Now's the time to start making nutrient rich choices, it is likely to be the fastest period of growth in their life.

  • For Vitamin A – Carrots, sweet potatoes, broccoli.
  • For Vitamin C – Red and green peppers.
  • Calcium – Broccoli, soy beans and squashes.
  • Iron – Spinach and Avocado

A good way to thin out purees is by using formula or breast milk, it not only adds nutrients but it's also a familiar taste that your baby will be accustomed to, which could be helpful if baby isn't really taking to vegetables.

Recipes

A couple of recipes using Sweet Potatoes

Something simple...

Squashed Sweet Potatoes

(for 4-6 months)

For this recipe, the squash and the sweet potato can be served separately, or, they do go nicely mixed together. Squash has a very subtle flavour, so is a good first vegetable to try mixing with others.

Ingredients
1 medium Squash
1 large Sweet Potato

The Squash - directions

  1. Cut the squash in half and scoop out the seeds.
  2. Bake in an oven at 190 degrees for 30-40 minutes, or until the squash is fleshy and soft.
  3. At this stage you can either scoop the flesh out, or food process the squash whole.
  4. If you scoop the flesh, you should be able to mash it quite easily.
  5. Add water, breast milk or formula accordingly to get a smooth consistency.

The Sweet Potato - directions

  1. Wash and prick the potato.
  2. Bake in an oven at 190 degrees for 50-60 minutes. (You can microwave if you are short on time. Or even microwave and then transfer to the oven and cook for 30 minutes)
  3. There is also the option to cut the potato into chunks, place them in boiling water for 10 minutes, and then mash them.
  4. Then you can combine the veg, or serve one at a time.

You could add a simple stock to the vegetables before pureeing, to add a bit more flavour. Be aware of the sodium and additive levels of some of the shop brought brands. You could make your own vegetable or meat stock. For vegetable, chop up onion, celery, a couple of carrots, some thyme and parsley. After chopping the vegetables, boil them for 30 minutes, strain and discard them, and you should be left with some tasty stock.

Something a bit out of the ordinary...

Sweet Potato Custard

(for 8-10 months)

Ingredients
1 cup mashed cooked sweet potato
½ cup mashed banana
2 tbs brown sugar
2 beaten egg yolks
½ tsp salt
¼ cup raisins
ground cinnamon

Directions

  1. In a medium bowl, stir together sweet potato and banana. Add milk, blending well.
  2. Add brown sugar, egg yolks and salt, mixing thoroughly. Transfer mixture to casserole dish.
  3. Combine raisins, sugar and cinnamon; sprinkle over the top of the sweet potato mixture.
  4. Bake in a preheated oven for 40-45 minutes, or until a knife insterted near the centre comes out clean.
  5. This dish will retain its heat, so you can afford to give it a long time to cool down.

It seems that when introducing solid and new types of food to baby, it's largely a case of persistence, trial and error. It makes sense that babies are similar to us in terms of appetite, it won't always be consistent or predictable. It is also likely that just as our taste buds develop and change, that baby's will do the same. So don't despair, remember - fussy children don't always become fussy adults.

If anyone else has any other baby recipes or would like to share their own experiences of feeding little ones, please feel free to share...

 

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Tuesday 10 August 2010 by Erika

Being pregnant with my first baby was daunting. I was excited, but I think everyone around me was determined to scare me half to death. All I heard were horror stories about sleepless nights, but I consoled myself with reassurance that my baby would be different.

Photo: sleeping baby wrapped up with cuddly toy

My baby was not different. If anything, my little bundle of joy was fully determined to prove me wrong. Those first few months passed by in a blur as I tried to adjust to my new, regularly interrupted and reduced sleeping pattern.

Of course I expected this. It comes with having babies, right? But I didn’t expect it to go on quite as long as it did. A friend of mine had his daughter around 6 months before I had my son, and he revelled in telling me how she slept through the night within her first few weeks. I turned to friends, family and the internet to find out if there was anything I could do to help baby sleep easier.

The first thing I learned was that breastfed babies tend to sleep more lightly and will probably wake up more often. It was comforting to know that this might at least partially explain why my son was waking so regularly. I also found out that newborns generally sleep for around 8 hours a night, but this can be broken up into periods of just one hour all the way up to 4 or 5 hours at a time.

I had been trying to get my baby into some kind of routine, but apparently in the first months, it’s more beneficial to ‘go with the flow’. Initially, let them sleep when they need to, and they’ll learn the difference between night and day as they get older.

I looked forward to the end of this initial stage, when I hoped I might start to get some sleep again. But as usual, I was wrong! In my case, as my son got older, he began to have less restful nights and I found it difficult to settle him. I was told this was normal, so I tried to pick up some tips on how to get him down for his rest. I was worried that by staying with him for too long as he dropped off, he might become increasingly reliant on me being there as he got older.

So I set up this routine:

  • Bedtime at the same time each night. Before bed, feed and bath him. Make sure that he doesn’t go from lively activity straight to bed, giving him time to wind down.
  • Put him down to bed, staying with him as he settles down. Always get him settled in the bedroom and not in other, noisier areas in the house.
  • Quietly sit in a chair a few feet away from the cot, and leave after a few minutes. If he cries I return, reassure him that I’m there and follow the same procedure.

Eventually, I hope to be able to put him down and be able to leave immediately. When he’s really tired I can do this already, but not all of the time.

Now he’s nearly 2 years old, he regularly sleeps through the night uninterrupted. I can usually get 6 or 7 hours sleep a night, and I’m finally feeling human again!

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Wednesday 28 July 2010 by Erika

Having read all the books and even studied language at university, I thought I knew when my boy should start talking, so when those first words didn’t arrive as soon as I expected, I immediately began to worry.

Photo of a lovely, babbling baby

Babies will usually start vocalising and making sounds when they’re just a month or two old. I listened out carefully, waiting for my son to start making some noise. But for most of his first year, the only sounds he wanted to make involved screaming and crying. To give him credit, he was extremely good at it!

I learned that the next stage was supposed to involve babbling — where babies start to produce the sounds of the language without attaching any meaning to them. And yet, soon after my baby turned one, he still wasn’t making much noise at all, let alone recognisable sounds.


The most disconcerting part around this time was meeting up with friends and their babies, who were developing nicely through these stages. I noticed in particular that one of my friend’s little girls was already speaking a few words before she’d even turned one. That’s when my panic set in!

The first thing I had checked was my baby’s hearing. But I was confident he didn’t have a hearing problem, as he often responded to his name and the noises going on around him. As suspected, his hearing was fine, and in all other ways he seemed perfectly alert. He didn’t speak much, but he definitely seemed to understand a lot. For example, he would get excited at the mention of ‘swimming’, ‘banana bread’ or ‘we’re going to Nanny’s’.

I was assured by my mum and many parents around me who’d had children before, that all babies develop at different rates and that I shouldn’t worry so much. So I gave it some more time, and sure enough, it came to him eventually. In the past 6 months he has been babbling and saying quite a few words, the very first of which I’m delighted to report was ‘cat’! He obviously takes after his mum, and loves nothing more than giving our big, friendly moggy a cuddle. He’s even started to learn sign language from Mr. Tumble, star of CBeebies show ‘Something Special’. However, he usually just uses it to tell me he wants to watch more Mr. Tumble!

So just bear in mind, if your baby hasn’t started talking as quickly as someone else’s, try not to panic. Babies develop at very different rates, but if you have any concerns, your doctor should always be able to ease them for you.

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