Tuesday 22 February 2011 by Jill

Lately, everyone seems to be an expert. Thanks to Jamie Oliver, most people think they’re ready for MasterChef. Gok Wan has created a nation of fashion divas and the endless stream of home improvement programmes makes us think DIY is a piece of cake.

But, from personal experience, I can assure you there is a lot more to being an expert than watching a few TV shows and buying a fancy sauce pan. Just like, there’s more to taking a great photo than upgrading to latest iPhone or purchasing that multi-lens Cannon. Especially for taking photos of children, when you just have to wait for the right moment.

 

Unlike the UK, where sending a birth announcement is a relatively new trend, in Holland, EVERYONE does it. And the difference between just those cards that use “Daddy’s best snap” versus one taken by a professional photographer is astounding.

I recently went to Amsterdam to visit friends who just gave birth to their first son. Conveniently, the shop below their flat is a bespoke stationery printers. Looking at the various designs in the window, it was easy to tell which ones had opted for the professional photos. The professional images were not just sharper and more beautiful, but they really seemed to capture the essence of the child. There was something truly captivating about the images.

When my friends showed me the slideshow of their photo shoot I was immediately hit with jealously that I hadn’t done the same for our son. The pictures weren’t the staged happy family of the 1980s but rather naturally lit images of his first day at home. The angles, lighting and simple settings were truly stunning. I know these will be photos they cherish forever- and look at often.

Having a baby is an expensive experience- as Helen talked about below. But, even if it’s just one or two shots, I personally, believe, having some professional images taken is worth every penny. After all, we can’t be experts in everything!  

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Wednesday 19 January 2011 by Helen

Talk about early development...


A recent news study, in last week’s New Scientist, claims that a foetus might learn to see before it has even been born.  I’ve heard of unborn babies being able to hear music from inside the womb, but I was quite surprised to discover that foetuses can potentially see? I suppose it could be quite amusing to imagine what your unborn baby's first sight would be? Something original to write inside the Birth Announcement when baby does eventually emerge from their 'womb with a view.' (I just about managed to resist the urge to make this the title of the post!)


When I say see, I think it’s more a case of them being sensitive to light, not necessarily recognising shapes and colours!  I doubt very much that a foetus can make out objects or signs. It's thought vision might develop 7 months into pregnancy. It was Marco Del Giudice at the University of Turin in Italy who made this discovery. He measured the amount of light that could penetrate through to a women’s uterus and discovered around 1 per cent of ambient light would get in. This essentially means that if a pregnant lady was to walk out into bright sunlight, for the foetus, it’s like being in a room with the lights on.

 

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Friday 24 December 2010 by Helen

Does being born on Christmas Day suck?

I would say the majority might agree that it's not the best day of the year to be born. A Christmas Day birthday is always going to be ever so slightly overshadowed! You don't get much bigger than Jesus.  

The main downside though, Birthday and Christmas just merge into one. Birthmas? The 'kill two birds with one stone' really comes into its own, and people double up on presents, cakes, cards, celebrations, you name it!

The Birthday Cake

'What Birthday Cake?' I can hear the Christmas Day birthday brigade say. It is likely you might get a makeshift adaptation of a christmas chocolate log or christmas cake. In other words, a candle or two, maybe a quick switch of the happy christmas decoration for a happy birthday one. If you are lucky enough to get a cake, there is such an excess of nice food anyway over christmas, the novelty of over indulging has worn off, and you're not actually that fussed about eating it!

When it comes to presents

You are likely to get a joint birthday/christmas present. People struggle enough as it is just getting their christmas shopping bought and wrapped, let alone getting birthday presents organised too. Supposedly the one christmas/birthday present you do get is the equivalent of two. It's an upgraded version of what you might have got as just a christmas present, more money has been invested, supposedly. I wonder how often this actually happens... 

If parents are as cunning  

Just like my Auntie and Uncle were, then a Christmas Day Birthday can actually double the present count. My cousin was born Christmas Day, and to ensure her birthday wasn't swallowed up by Christmas every year, my Auntie made up a fake birthday. July 10th, every year, my cousin has her second birthday. What tends to happen, is everyone goes to a lot of effort on both occasions, so it is win win for her really.

Anyone expecting around this time of year must be getting a little twitchy. And the usual Christmas conundrums, the wrapping, the preparing the turkey etc etc probably  couldn't be further from their minds! I wonder how many Birth Announcements will be dropping through letterboxes come the new year.

A Boxing Day baby

There might just be one thing that does suck more than being born on Christmas Day... Being born around Christmas Day. So either a few days before or after. Your Birthday is still as likely to get overshadowed, but you're unlikely to get quite the same sympathy, or have quite as much license to moan. Being honest, if you heard someone say 'I'm a boxing day baby', or 'I'm a 2 days before christmas baby' it wouldn't quite pack the same punch!

To end on a postitive note, if yours or your little one's birthday is on Christmas Day, here are a few people who you share your birthday with...

  • Jesus
  • Sir Isaac Newton
  • Humphrey Bogart
  • Sissy Spacek
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Wednesday 08 December 2010 by Helen

The snow may have melted, but it's still baltic freezing! Having talked about taking wintery pictures in my previous blog, I thought I'd choose a few of my favourites to share. I would love to receive a Christening invitation or Baby Thank You Card with one of these little cuties on the front!

colour photo of baby sat in the snow

colour photo of baby in a sledge

colour photo of baby taking first steps in the snow

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familymrw

Molechaser

Qole Pejorian,

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Thursday 02 December 2010 by Helen

Snow-related photos are everywhere (Well, mostly on facebook.) The snow falls (and actually settles) and all of a sudden the most mundane objects become photographic; garden furniture, cars, benches, you name it. Even an empty patio becomes worthy of a photo!

I like that the news and weather always closes with a handful of photos, sent in by enthusiastic viewers - 'Rod from Kent in his back garden', or pictures of proud snowmen sculptors next to their creations. These images are all in contrast to chaotic news reports (just been delivered by the newsreader) of the country's failing attempts to maintain some sort of transport system! The image that always sticks in my mind is the gridlocked 'M25 car park', which in the snow becomes the 'M25 (long stay) car park/ice rink.' 

Out of all the images I've seen, my 'photo of the snow' is one of my friend and her little boy Joe, during his first encounter with the white stuff.

Black and white photograph of little boy playing in the snow with his Mum

The snowy weather provides a rare opportunity to get some genuinely wintery, picturesque photos of your baby, pictures that could either be used to create seasonal Baby Thank You Cards, framed and given as presents or just kept for the family album. First ever snow is a momentus occasion, enjoy the unique photo opportunities it brings !

 

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Monday 22 November 2010 by Helen

I am only just finding my tweet on twitter, and I can imagine (perhaps) tweeting a Birth Announcement, most likely in addition to a more formal method though. It could serve as a speedy way of making the news widespread and venting some excitement! I'm not talking  fresh out of labour tweets, Sara Williams style. The Wife of Twitter CEO, Sara, quite literally broke the news as her waters were breaking! Birth Announcement is one thing, but I'm not sure about tweeting as an alternative to say a Baby Thank You Card?

These twitter and baby-related thoughts did make me think about other potentially tweetworthy and untweetworthy situations...

3 things to tweet about

  1. A not-to-be-missed social event, baby show, or sale.
  2. Tips and recommendations - sharing advice on parenting.
  3. Funny stories - a 140 character account of one of the many goings on in the world of new baby.

3 things not to tweet about

  1. The contents of baby's nappy - less is definitely more when it comes to these kinds of messy details!
  2. Arguments with partner/friend/husband or wife - Basically, personal snipes in general. If you want to hit someone hard, hit them with more than a 'tweet.' Unless, of course it is your intention is to irritate or launch a mass insult on all your followers!
  3. Hate or love. So that covers 'ranting about your job or boss' or 'revealing intimate details about your loved one.' (Or, your crush/boss/anyone you're cyber stalking.)

When to tweet

  1. When tired or hungover, because A- it requires so little effort, especially with a smartphone, and B - even the small things often seem a lot funnier when overtired, so people tend to be wittier in their observations!
  2. Whilst waiting for public transport - but don't just tweet about how many hours you've been waiting! You have time to kill, then you have time to think of something interesting to say !
  3. As soon as something springs to mind. Wait, and the moment is gone (often never to be seen again) and you'll think ' I had something really good to say earlier...'

When not to tweet

  1. If having a conversation with someone else - a tad on the rude side!
  2. If having a sleepless night - announcing this to the twitosphere will not help your cause (it's about as helpful as clock watching!)
  3. Whilst driving - a rather obvious one to finish !
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Monday 15 November 2010 by Helen

Whilst looking at some alternatives to the traditional Birth Announcement, I came across a few Video Birth Announcements. I thought I'd share a couple, one has Star Wars-appeal and one has cute-appeal...

The first is for the Star Wars fans. It's a bit drawn out perhaps, but pretty clever and it's definitely worth riding out all 2 minutes and 28 seconds of it...

This next one is cute, raises a smile and is kept to a very short and sweet 34 seconds! I think it's the choice of song which makes it for me!

I can see the appeal of a Video Birth Announcement, it's functional, but also a form of instant entertainment! It's a very accessible medium for the majority of us, given our technology-orientated lifestyles. But what about those who aren't online, the older generation for example? I can't assume they're not online, but it's probably fair to say the majority of them are unlikely to be. So in that respect the card-form might have wider appeal, there's nothing Gran or Grandad likes more than something to display on the mantle piece. Besides, you can't stash a video in the bottom of a drawer, rediscover it a few years down the line (covered in dust) and have yet another chuckle or ahhh at it.

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Thursday 04 November 2010 by Jill

Imagine this... 

A large movie poster, 'The Newborn Identity', underneath it is a huge picture of your baby's face, and underneath that in the credits are your names as the proud parents (The Producers)... Believe it or not this method of Birth Announcement does exist! You might not be a fan of less conventional methods, but who else isn't just a little intrigued as to what other quirky ideas there are?

The likelihood is that at some point soon, a Birth Announcement Card will drop through your letterbox. It's a popular way to share new arrival news in a more official way, aside from the multiple phone calls and the status update on Facebook! But, what are the options if you did want to go about things a little differently...

Movie Posters

As mentioned above, you can customise to your liking, so think Top Gun.... Top Son. The fun in this idea for me would be in the changing and adaptation of the movie names. But then I'm a fan of words. There's nothing people like more than spoof pictures, it could be comical to introduce little star as movie star, but it does depend on how far you want to stray from tradition, and whether you are going for keepsake or humour. It is also worth bearing in mind that everyone from the midwife (Director) to the Nurses get a mention in the credits. (I'm guessing those who had more rocky relationships with their midwife might not be as happy about this.)

Music Posters

For the rock and roll, how do you fancy designing your own retro gig poster? Like the movie posters, they're fully customisable and you can design the shape, size and colour, essentially you can create a poster reminiscent of those posted on city streets advertising not-to-be-missed music gigs.

Seeded Paper Cards

The idea of the seeded paper card is that having enjoyed the card, the reciever can then plant it, and the seeds should sprout. grow and flower. I like that it's green and it's more than just a card that's binned and forgotten about. Planting the card gives it a new purpose and meaning. This is why Personalised Birth Announcements are so popular, but in their case it's the photo that makes the card a special keepsake. Returning to the notion of planting cards, I am slightly sceptical as to how many people would actually get around to replanting it. (It could be especially tricky if you live in a 6th floor flat?) Another thing I'm not convinced about is the success rate, how fast the flowers grow, if they grow at all, or, whether it's just like those seeds you get from the garden centre, the 'grow your own Venus Fly Trap', the ones that never actually grow!

The Seeded Paper Card has to be my favourite, a really unique idea that's a bit less gimmicky! I'm sure there are many other birth announcement methods, infact I am going to throw just one more into the mix, The Techie Birth Announcement.

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Tuesday 26 October 2010 by Helen

After taking a not-so-serious look at 9 Old Wives Tales, and the seemingly random ways in which you might be able to predict whether you're due a baby boy or girl, I thought it was probably time to provide some facts. No more mythical tales, for now, instead, an all singing all dancing list of 4 Essential Prenatal Vitamins, with some advice on which foods contain the vitamins, recipes and a brief overview of the canned VS fresh debate. I have also thrown a little challenge in at end. (Firstly, a disclaimer -I'm providing general information, not specific medical advice.)

Vitamin A 

Why you need it? It helps to maintain healthy teeth, bones and soft tissue. Vitamin A is particularly important for women who are just about to give birth, as it helps with postpartum tissue repair.  By helping to support the respiratory, circulatory and central nervous system, it plays a vital role in fighting off infection. It also known to promote good vision, by producing pigments in the retina of the eye.

Where you find it? Pumpkin, which is in season at the moment! It’s also found in green and yellow vegetables, such as carrots, spinach, broccoli and potatoes, as well as in milk and eggs.

Vitamin A advice - A recipe rich in vitamin A is Roast Pumpkin. It's a satisfying dish that can be enjoyed as a side, or a main (with a separate dish of potatoes or veg perhaps on the side.)

Roast Pumpkin - Directions: Slice the pumpkin into quarters and then scrape out the seeds. You can then leave it in quarters or cut it into chunks. Drissle with olive oil before baking in a 200 degree oven for 60 minutes. If you wanted to add a bit more flavour, you could crush chilli and garlic, add a bit of oil, a pinch of salt and make a paste to rub into the pumpkin. Or, if short of time, you could throw a handful of herbs into the baking tray (fresh or dried.) Rosemary, for example, is a hardy herb that is likely to stay rooted in your herb garden for most of the year. Once the pumpkin is roasted, or towards the end of roasting (for the last 5 minutes or so), you could sprinkle with some grated cheese and toasted nuts. I like the contrast in textures of the gooey cheese and the crunchy nuts. (You could use pine nuts, almonds or pecans.)

Vitamin E

Why you need it? It plays a protective and restorative part in many of the body's functions. Vitamin E is an anti-oxidant, so it protects nutrients such as Vitamin A and C from damage by oxygen, it helps the body to resist infection.  It supports the heart, creating new red blood cells, strengthening capillary walls and dissolving blood clots.

Where you find it? Spinach, fortified cereals, wheatgerm, vegetable oil and nuts.

Vitamin E excursion - Why not go on a trip, or make it your challenge to find the best or should I say the most fortified cereal that actually tastes good. I read an interesting article today, advising on how you should go about choosing the best fortified cereal. Apparently pre-packaged cereal can be a nutrient packed start to the day. Some cereals are high in fibre, others are higher in iron, so the cereal you choose will depend upon the desired affect. A cereal such as Branflakes, which contains a lot of iron, may be a good start to the day if you're suffering from tiredness or if you're feeling weak (and dizzy) or even suffering from anemia.  If on the other hand you are having problems with constipation, then a bowl of All Bran or porridge might help loosen up bowel movements, as these cereals contain the higher amounts of fibre.  A lot of cereal contains wheat, and increasingly people seem to be wheat intolerant, Nature’s Path do a good range that caters for the wheat and gluten intolerant. Millet Rice is my personal favourite from that range, they are high in fibre, low in fat and salt, and naturally sweetened with fruit juice. ( Most importantly, they taste great.)

Vitamin C

Why you need it? It’s an antioxidant, commonly known for helping to build up the immune system.  In pregnant women it plays a vital role in structuring and building up the foetal membrane.  Everyone tends to associate Vitamin C with oranges, but actually 1 cup of strawberries contains 85mg, a much higher level than a single orange, which contains 69 mg.

Where you find it? Tomatoes, potatoes, green beans, peppers and citrus fruits.

Vitamin C - canned? I’ve been reading up on the fresh VS frozen or canned debate and it seems some studies have found that canned foods hold their own when it comes to nutrients. My instinct would be that fresh tomatoes would contain more nutrients, but apparently Vitamin C, A and Thiamine hold up well during canning. Analysis has shown that in some cases (pumpkins for example) Vitamin A levels are higher in the canned productHere's another recipe suggestion involving Vitamin A and C. You could make a ratatouille to accompany the pumpkin. Remember you can alternate the colour of the peppers, and choose fresh or tinned tomatoes, depending on which is available to you.

Vitamin D

Why you need it?

It helps with the absorption of calcium, vital for health teeth and bones. Vitamin D is also known as ‘The Sunshine Vitamin’, as the sun essentially triggers the body to begin manufacturing the vitamin. Apparently  10-15 minutes, three times a week should be adequate exposure. But, according to an article just a couple of months ago, Vitiman D deficiency in pregnant women in Britain is unacceptably high. So, it may be worth considering ways of upping your levels, and making sure you do get out in the sun (if it's out) at least once during the day.

Where you find it? Fatty Fish, milk, eggs and sunshine. So fishwise; mackerel, pilchards, salmon and sardines.

Vitamin D dilemma - The whole soak up the sun solution isn’t any good when the wind and rain sets in. Common during British summertime and standard during wintertime. By eating fish that’s high in omega 3, pilchards or sardines on toast for example, you'll increase your absorption. Cod Liver Oil supplements can also help, and might be an alternative if you’re not partial to oily fish, quite a rich food to digest if you have a delicate stomach.

Other vital vitamins -

Thiamin (B1) - helps to raise energy levels and regulate the nervous system. Iron is found in fortified cereal, eggs rice, pork and berries.

Folic Acid - can help prevent spina bifida and also supports and strengthens the placenta. Folic Acid found in citrus fruits, leafy green vegetables, brocolli, beans nuts and seeds.

Iron - can help prevent low birth weight, premature delivery and anemia. Iron-rich foods should help with energy levels during pregnancy. Iron is found in beef, pork, dried beans, dried fruit and oatmeal.

Zinc - helps to produce enzymes and insuline, and can be found in red meats, poultry, beans, nuts, fortified cereals and wholegrains.

Some of the main food groups, such as fruit, meat and vegetables might be harder to measure, vitamin-wise. For example, it could be hard to decipher the exact amount of Vitamin E you ar recieve from your portion of spinach with toasted pine nuts, or how much Vitamin C there is in a handful of strawberries. There are charts you can get which will translate portions into vitamins, but I don't think it's worth becoming too obsessive about.

I am aware there has been conflicting advice on vitamin pills, and it is a little like the ‘should you drink when pregnant ’ debate. I’ve only mentioned a selection of vitamins, and you should get enough of these vitamins from simply eating the right nutrient-rich foods, so essentially, from a balanced diet. If you are concerned you're lacking in any areas and you're looking to take additional supplements, then it’s probably an idea to check with your doctor or nutritionist, just to ensure you’re getting the right dose.

Now for the challenge...

Devise or discover a recipe (any recipe, starter, main or dessert) that contains every single vitamin mentioned in this post. Or, at the very least the 4 main vitamins mentioned.

- Vitamin A,

- Vitamin E

- Vitamin C

- Vitamin D

- Thaimin (B1)

- Folic Acid

- Iron

- Zinc

Many foods contain more than one vitamin, so it's very do-able challenge! I look forward to seeing some delicious recipes posted in the comments section...

 

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Tuesday 19 October 2010 by Helen

An Old Wives Tale for every month of pregnancy! I'm sure there are many more, but here's my 'best of.'  And please take everything with an ocean-sized pinch of salt. Think more light entertainment than complete guide...


  • If you wish to have a baby girl, you should place a spoon under your bed. If you wish to have a baby boy you should face your pillow northwards. (So there you go, you can get painting the nursery and choosing what colour to make your christening invitations.)
  • If you crave sweets, it signifies you might have a girl, and if you crave savoury, meats and cheese for example, you can expect to give birth to a baby boy. (This is all well and good if you have a strong preference towards sweets or savoury. But if like me, one always has to follow the other, then it's going to make for a very deprived 9 months.)
  • If the heartbeat is over 140 then you will be having a girl. If the heartbeat is under, it will be a boy. (And then science stepped in! It was discovered that the sex of a baby doesn't affect it's heartbeat until it's born)
  • If your husband or partner joins you in getting fat, then, aside from making you feel better about yourself, the theory is that you will have a girl. If, on the other hand, he decides to pump the iron and the shed a few pounds, you are more likely to have a boy.  (Hmm. I'll take the snack-buddy and take my chances on that one thanks!)
  • Continuing on the food front. Apparently, avoiding peanuts when pregnant will ensure your baby doesn't develop food allergies. (Though this is believed by a large majority to be false)
  • If you are flat chested, you are unable to breast feed. Again, science has rubbished this and reiterated that breast feeding is about milk production, not size. (And, is there even such a thing as a flat-chested pregnant lady?)
  • It is said that a baby girl will steal her Mother's looks. So if you're having a lot more 'fat' or 'ugly' days than usual, it may just be that your soon to be baby girl is causing her first pre-world stir ! (Of course it has nothing to do with the fact that pregnant and hormones are all over the place!)
  • Getting fuller in the face? If people are saying - 'ah you look healthy' ie - chubbier, a lot, then this may indicate that you are having a girl. (On the other hand, isn't there such a thing as a pregnant glow?)
  • In the old (old) days, Mothers had to rely on dangling a ring over their belly to indicate the sex of their baby. If it swumg backwards and forwards, it was a girl, in a circle and it was a boy.

 

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